should gay people be allowed to get married

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should gay people be allowed to get married

Getting married is something that most people all over the world look forward to,finding someone that is compatible to spend the rest of our lives with,maybe raise a family

The traditional couple is usually a man and a woman,these days is some cases it is two people of the same sex,two women or two men form this companionship and some,not all couples just like the traditional couples,a few of them would like to have a marriage certificate simply saying-on this day john and tony or mary and sally were married at this location.

However it has been a long hard fight between the powers that be and these people that want to get married,many of these people have been living together longer than some people in traditional marriages,i think if they pay their taxes like every one else,love each other and have the few dollars to pay for the certificate they should be allowed to get married.

Why should they be excluded from all the good- bad- joy -pain- hurt - sorrow-comfort and security that marriage has to offer, let them get married and suffer the consequences like the rest of us.

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Comments

Amarachi 2 years ago

In the beginning God created Adam and Eve,NOT Adam and Steve.Our country is founded on God's Holy word and He said it is an abomination and a stink in His nostrals. I will never treat a gay person different from anyone else but if they ask me how I feel about their relationship,I would tell them the truth because that is what God said to do.He said the truth shall set you free. He also said to love them,love them as you would love yourself.You cannot love them and not care about their soul.I would love them through Gods eyes and would try to help them understand without feeling like I was just against them or hated them or something like that. Because their feelings matter as much as anyone elses.They are important and should not be ignored but loved.

Amarachi

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fyxer Hub Author 2 years ago

I AGREE BUT DO YOU WANT TO SEE THEM GET MARRIED @AMARACHI?

BABYGIRL 2 years ago

IT ALSO SAY IN THE BIBLE THAT THOU SHALT NOT JUDGE OTHERS OR THE SHALT BE JUDGED SO WHY IS IT TO USE TO JUDGE WHAT OTHERS DO WHEN WE SHOULD BE THINKING BOUT WHATS REALLY GOIN ON IN THE WORLD LIKE THIS WAR WE NEED TO WORRY BOUT BRINGING OUR TROOPS HOME AND STOPIN THE WAR MORE THEN WHAT IS HAPPINING IN THE BEDROOMS OF OTHER PPL

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fyxer Hub Author 2 years ago

TO EACH HIS OWN LIVE AND LET LIVE AND LOVE EACH OTHER THANKS FOR THE COMMENT @BABYGIRL

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travel_man1971 Level 6 Commenter 2 years ago

Getting married to same sex is a kind of lifestyle. As long as they love each other and didn't ruin other relationships, who are we to judge them? I have cousins who are gay and I respect their sex orientation.

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fyxer Hub Author 2 years ago

I TOTALLY AGREE LOVE IS LOVE AS LONG AS THEY LOVE EACH OTHER THATS ALL THAT MATTERS

thanks for your comment@travel man 1971

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tonymac04 2 years ago

I think that the important word in the title is "people" - and why should gay people be treated differently from the others are treated? Of course they should be able to get married. There should be no discrimination. And if other people don't like it that's also OK. Nobody is asking them to get into a same-sex marriage. Live and let live, don't judge because the judgement will come back at you!

Love and peace

Tony

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fyxer Hub Author 2 years ago

LOVE IS WHERE YOU FIND IT, LIVE AND LET LIVE AND LOVE EACH OTHER

THANK YOU @TONYMAC04

Valarie 2 years ago

God also says "Judge ye not". When they leave this earth they do not have to answer to us about their life style they have to answer to God. Some of them may get in the Pearlie Gates of Heaven quicker than those in a man and woman marriage. I think they should be allowed to get married. Who is we to tell whom someone can spend the rest of their lives with. Marriage is the conjoining of two people that loves each other and if they love each other why shouldn't they be allowed to be married. Yes let them get married they are still humans. If we stop worrying about gay marriages and start devoting all this money and time helping the homeless or making sure our kids are getting a good education then the world just might be a better place to live.

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fyxer Hub Author 2 years ago

judge not , the world would indeed be a better place--thanks @ valarie.

Kim 2 years ago

I don't believe gays should marry but I wasn't put on this earth to judge others that's God's job.. I have friends that are gay and won't turn my back on them, but like the saying goes God made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve.. By the way my gay friends do know my point of view but I have never hurt them for what I believe. I don't condemn them

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fyxer Hub Author 2 years ago

I would like them to get married @kim also if a man or woman wanted to marry his or her pet they should have that right also thanks for your opinion again kim.

HA 2 years ago

the thing that we disagree does not mean that we are judging homosexuals o lesbians. nobody can judge anybody because nobody is perfect.

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fyxer Hub Author 2 years ago

judge not or you will be judged--only god can judge us

amber 23 months ago

god loves u no matter who u are and how u are im gay and i take that affencavly :I

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fyxer Hub Author 23 months ago

im fine thanks---have a bless day,thanks for reading

Jennifer Harmon 22 months ago

god say, god says. if god gave a crap we all wouldnt be here there are so much more things wrongs in this world for the people to worry about same-sex couples getting married. i think they should it makes everything equal and they are people too and they deserve to get married just like everyone else.

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fyxer Hub Author 22 months ago

live and let live and love each other thanks for the comment

Freddie 20 months ago

Isn't it funny how everyone says love a person for the inside? If this is true why are gay couples discriminated? It's the inside what counts besides we should all ahve rights. I don't believe in what ''God'' said. He is judging gay people so he shalt be the one judged! Everyone can love who they want God nor anyone of us can stop them.

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fyxer Hub Author 20 months ago

true we all need love, not war,

Pollo 20 months ago

The Catholic church had nothing to do with marriage during church's first one thousand years, it wasnt even a sacrement. Marriage was understood as a property arrangement between families. Initially marriage had nothing to do with religion, therefor in my opinion gay marriage should be no problem religion wise.

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fyxer Hub Author 20 months ago

thanks for reading pollo

Johnny 19 months ago

I am gay too and god told me that it was all right to be gay

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OpinionDuck 19 months ago

johnny shouldn't lie.

stevo 18 months ago

OH MY GOD THIS IS PICUTURE IS HOT.

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fyxer Hub Author 18 months ago

i know don't you just love it

Aj 18 months ago

this is from my P.O.V I'm gay and me and my partner really love each other and we want to settle down. who gives anyone else the right to decide whether two people who acre about each other and love each other can settle down together or not. Who gives you or anyone the right to impede on someone elses happiness. the beliefs this country was founded on was the bible's yes but it was founded on a stronger belief that all people were created with the right to equality, freedom and pursuit of happiness.

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fyxer Hub Author 17 months ago

To each his own, i'm just asking a question, to start a conversation on a topic that many people are passionate about, either way i'm good,only god can judge me,have a bless day.

diana 16 months ago

i dnt have anything with them iits their choice their life we should not judge them cuz only god can.... bt ii think iits wrong cuz god made a man nd a woman to love eachother!! bt iits theiir choice.

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johnnymission 16 months ago

I say if they are still letting straight people marry after all the infidelity and "wife swap" shows devaluing the sacredness of the intention behind two people committing to each other for life, sure, why not.

Women of God 15 months ago

Love the person,hate the sin.Jesus loves you no matter the choices you make but he is dispointed in the ones that you break by him.So being gay is a sin.

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coffeesnob Level 1 Commenter 15 months ago

I see so often that people refer to the verse in Matthew 7 and really do not understand its context. It is not saying we should not judge, but that we should not judge in a manner with which we do not want to be judged. We ALL judge. Would you say don't judge about one who is on trial fot exploiting a child in pornography or has been involved in the act of human trafficking? I am not trying to make a comparrison of sins - only saying that we make judgements. And that too often people take Scripture out of context and use it to justify a position. I can, and I must make judgements every day of my life. What is clear in the Scripture is that I cannot expect to not be judged as I judge. So if I judge with a harsh spirit then I will receive the same. I can make a judgement about what the Bible calls sins and still have great compassion for the person. To judge: i.e decide, assess, distinguish is a necessary part of life. How else would we determine our world view? How else would we correct our children when there is misbehavior? And if our world view is based on the Bible, then this is the basis on which we make our assessments.

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fyxer Hub Author 15 months ago

DIANA--JOHNNYMISSION--WOMEN OF GOD--COFFEESNOB--THANKS FOR YOUR COMMENTS, HAVE A BLESS DAY

TheTruth 10 months ago

From what I remember, there are only ten commandments sent by "God".

God never said "thou shalt not have man as a wife"

Who is to say that old men (you know there's one in every neighborhood) were writing these and saw something they didnt like and decided to publicise aginst it? They did seem to have alot of time on their hands judging everyone else and not living life. Maybe these men were influenced by their wives to make laws and silly morals, hmm? Most men don't care about this. I think some women realized we don't need them, and are looking out for themselves by keeping gays from marrying. No man cares if two lesbians marry. So it has to be some of the women who are leading the protest through men. I have no proof of this but it makes sense. This is not an attack. This is a debate. Please speak intelligently and provide due diligence with research.

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